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He Stole My Music

Some time ago, I was seeing a man, with whom we had the same music preferences. This connected us a lot. We had discussions about the bands that we liked. We introduced each other to new bands, which we had never heard of before. That was important, since music is a big part of my life.

Probably, you remember that I like really heavy stuff. I love it because of the music and lyrics. Very often, the lyrics reflect my state of mind or it resonates with my past wounds. I feel special connections with the music I listen to.

Such things are extremely private, at least for me. It was my own world, where no one was ever welcomed. And I let him in.

Sometimes things come to an end, and people go separate ways. That’s life, and it’s fine. However, I turned out to have a problem, which I did not expect to have. Now, when I listen to my favourite bands, I have particular memories of that man. I don’t want to, but I do. Eventually, these memories will fade away. Just the time is needed.

Has it ever happened to you that music triggers some memories?

14 thoughts on “He Stole My Music

  1. I absolutely understand. I have been going through this for the past year. My partner and I shared so much music in common and it does make you remember that person. All the memories that the songs can bring back to you. I feel with time listening to my favorite music will not be as bitten sweet as it is at the moment. 🙂

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  2. This has happened to me my whole life. People come into my life and people go. Music comes into my life and always stays. Like you I adore how music speaks to me. What the same song says to me just changes over time. I just hope you always have a love for Music. It has always been a source of comfort to me and I hope that remains for you too.

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  3. With everything and relationships with parents and others because an artist band or group takes you to another time and puts you in certain frame of mind,also its the soundtrack of your life and those notes hit and feel different upon reflections, I appreciate you and get with this all the way

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